看完了《孔雀》，最忘不了的就是”姐姐”那很有象征意义的憧憬的眼神.
追求–姐姐渴望自己的生活如夏花一下灿烂，自制的降落伞恰如孔雀之屏，旁若无人的在路上飞过。但还是要和现实妥协，结婚，找个清闲的工作，不得不过着平淡如水的生活，沉迷于制作玻璃花朵来给自己一点点内心上的安慰。
逃避–“弟弟”的沉默好像总是在刻意躲避着什么，躲避着家庭，躲避着社会，最后用一点点的“努力”换来了提前退休。
麻木–有些“弱智”的哥哥是个没有“理想”的人，吃饱了不愁，容易满足，所以哥哥的生活看起来似乎没有那么多痛苦。
招聘是个体力活
找工作难,招人也难.公司小,要找个替代自己的人,只有自己动手招人了.
发简历,托朋友,朋友的朋友,开始的时候还在招聘信息上留下了我的MSN,好家伙,一会儿上来四五个,每个都要我介绍介绍公司情况,还有上来闲聊的,天啊!弄得我手忙脚乱.
一天下来,着实收到了不少简历,挨个的看一便,看到合适的留下个记号.如果是在论坛上有印象的人则搜索该ID的贴子,衡量技术能力.再花去时间若干.
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Tom 的经验谈
Tom 是怎么成为一个 Oracle 数据库大师的?在这里有所提及：
it took me 16 years of “all about oracle” to be here. started as a programmer/analyst on the mainframe writing PL/I code against SQL/DS and DB2 (PL/I is still by far the coolest language I’ve ever used). That started my SQL career. I bought Oracle version 5.1.5c from Dr. Dobbs Journal for $99.00 in the late 80’s and started building systems with it. Then I was “forced” to use
Sybase, Informix, Ingress, Gupta SQLBase and other “rdbms’s” as well.
阅读/学习基本理论和掌握产品文档是必要的一步：
I also learned all about databases then — read the theory (like Jim Grays Transaction Processing Book, not really light reading but taught me lots of stuff). Then read the practical (the reference manuals).
So I spent six years as a developer/dba. Even though I was a coder — i found doing things in the database to make tons more sense then writing tons of code to do the same. I actually quit my first job after six years soley for the reason that they wouldn’t let me exploit the software they paid so much for (they were so into this “generic database”, the “database is a commidity”
concept that they had me coding our own two phase commit protocol, our own stored procedure language, our own compilers for the same, our own sql parser — it was frightening. Funny thing is — I meet with customers all of the time
still doing just that!)
the first six years is what really did it. on the job training, reading — tech books (egads — the manuals!) lots of magazines (i was a magazine junkie, dr dobbs, the c programmers journal, you name it).